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The Decline of Personal Service: From Gas Stations to Grocery Stores

The Decline of Personal Service: From Gas Stations to Grocery Stores

Considering that roughly 216 million people shop at Walmart, one might ponder the sheer number of stores. The number of stores hovers near 4,500.

I don’t need to tell you that Walmart is responsible for the death of many mom-and-pop shops in small town america. Now Amazon is killing what is left. Do you remember the friendly face behind the counter the one that might ask you about your family or even know your name?

Not that long ago, I’d pull up to the filling station and, before I could even step out of my car, an attendant would be at my window with a friendly smile. They’d fill my tank for me, and if I asked, they’d wash my windows until they sparkled, check the air in my tires, and even pop the hood to make sure my oil was topped off. It felt like a small ritual of care, when someone else looked after both me and my car.

I still remember the little extras that made stopping at the gas station feel special. Not only would they fill my tank and check my tires, but I’d also collect S&H Green Stamps with every purchase. I’d save them, sticking them into those little booklets, dreaming of what I could redeem them for. Some stations even had promotional giveaways—maybe a glass, a bowl, or some other small treasure to take home. It felt like they truly valued my business.

And honestly, when you think about it, gas stations make money on every gallon sold. So why not have someone there to give you that little something extra? It wasn’t just about the gas—it was about the experience, the care, and the feeling that you mattered as a customer.

I’ve learned that the federal tax on gasoline has been stuck at 18.4 cents per gallon since 1993—unchanged for over three decades. For diesel, it’s higher at 24.4 cents per gallon. It’s strange to think about how much has changed since then, yet this tax has stayed the same, even as inflation has chipped away at its real value.

When it comes to gas stations, I was surprised to find out that they only make about 10 to 15 cents per gallon in profit after covering all their expenses—things like credit card fees, utilities, and employee wages. Sure, the markup on gas might be around 30 cents per gallon, but most of that gets eaten up by operating costs. In the end, the station itself is left with just a small slice of the pie. Of course, this can vary depending on where the station is, how much competition it has, and other factors.

And then there’s the total tax burden on gas. When you combine the federal tax with state taxes, it adds up. On average, state gas taxes are around 32.26 cents per gallon, which means the total tax—federal and state combined—comes out to about 50.66 cents per gallon as of mid-2023. It’s wild to think that over 50 cents of every gallon I pump goes straight to taxes!

As of July 1, 2025, I’m paying 61.2 cents per gallon in state gas taxes here in California. That’s the highest in the entire country, and it’s not just the excise tax—though that alone went up by 1.6 cents from the previous 59.6 cents per gallon. On top of that, there are all these other fees, like sales tax and underground storage tank fees, which push the total tax burden on every gallon of gas to over $1.15. It’s mind-blowing when you think about it.

Honestly, I can’t help but wonder how California hasn’t turned into a ghost state by now. With gas prices this high, it feels like only the Hollywood elite could afford to stick around. Meanwhile, the rest of us are left shaking our heads at the pump, wondering where all this money is going.

These days, I do it all at the gas station. I’m pumping my own gas, washing my own windows, and if I decide to step into the store, there’s a good chance I might not even understand the person behind the counter. It’s a far cry from the days when someone would come out, take care of everything for me, and maybe even throw in a smile or a little conversation. Now, it feels like I’m on my own, just another part of the self-service world we’ve all grown used to.

After finishing my transaction, I think what irritates me the most is that cold, robotic “THANK YOU” that comes from some computer chip with absolutely zero agency. It’s not a person expressing gratitude—it’s just a programmed response, a hollow echo of politeness designed to mimic human interaction. I know it’s just a chip running instructions, processing inputs, and spitting out outputs, but it feels so empty. It’s like the machine is trying to replace the human touch, and instead, it just reminds me how far we’ve drifted from real, meaningful interactions.

I can still remember a time when going to the grocery store felt like a completely unique experience. Back then, I’d push my cart through the aisles, and when I was done, someone would take it from me and handle everything. They’d ring up my order, carefully bag or sack the groceries, and then, as if it were the most natural thing in the world, someone would carry them out to my car. They’d even ask where I wanted them placed—trunk, backseat, wherever—and do it with a smile.

It wasn’t just about the service; it was the warmth of the interactions. There were genuine “pleases” and “thank you’s,” and as I drove away, I felt appreciated, like my business actually mattered. It wasn’t just a transaction—it was a moment of connection, a small but meaningful exchange that made the whole experience feel human. Now, I can’t help but miss those days, when customer service wasn’t just a buzzword but something you could feel in every interaction.

Today, things couldn’t be more different. Now, there’s an app for everything—even grocery shopping. I’m expected to pull out my phone, open the app, and start scanning my groceries as I pick them out. I place them in my cart myself, and when I’m ready to leave, I just show the machine a barcode on my phone. And Voila—transaction complete. It feels a lot like shopping at Aldi or one of those other stores where you’re left to bag, box, or otherwise pack your own groceries for the ride home.

As I glance around, I see several employees standing around, not ringing people up or bagging groceries, but instead directing traffic or helping someone with an item that refuses to scan properly. Is it quicker? Sure, sometimes it is. But can it be slower? Oh, absolutely. The entire process feels so detached. What used to be a personal, interactive experience now feels like I’m just another cog in a self-service system, where the human touch has been replaced by machines and apps.

Here’s the bottom line: H-E-B and Tom Thumb are the only places around here that still have full-service stores. So, I’ve decided to run a brief experiment. I’m going to visit each one and rate them on three things: price, availability of products, and the overall customer experience. Because let’s face it, prices are already way too high, and shrinkflation is everywhere. If I’m going to get screwed over, I’d at least like a little courtesy to go along with it—give me a kiss afterward, you know?

What I mean is, when I leave the store, I don’t want to walk out feeling frazzled, pissed off, and frustrated by the total incompetence of the people they hire. I just want a real person to look me in the eye, maybe smile, and say, “Thank you, have a great day.” Is that too much to ask? What do you think? Let me know your thoughts—because at this point, I’m starting to wonder if I’m expecting too much, or if the world’s just forgotten how to care.

The Intriguing Truth Behind Covert Surveillance and Data Privacy

The Intriguing Truth Behind Covert Surveillance and Data Privacy

Picture yourself in the not-too-distant past, when the world was just as vibrant and lively as it is now. It was then that I found myself in the enchanting town of Gatlinburg, nestled in the heart of the Smoky Mountains.

Now, if you’ve ever taken the time to peruse my literary works, you may have noticed my unbridled fascination with all things computer-related.

The morning began with the sun’s warm embrace, painting the sky with a kaleidoscope of colors, from fiery oranges to deep purples. Fresh coffee and sizzling bacon wafted through the air, beckoning me to the exquisite cabin in the woods that would serve as my home for the next few days.

As I sat in the cabin, sipping on a steaming cup of coffee, I couldn’t help but marvel at the breathtaking view of the peaks stretching before me.

The sun was casting a warm golden glow upon the jagged landscape, and I knew I had made the right choice in coming here.

As I glanced around the cabin, I couldn’t help but be intrigued by the coax cable connected to the alarm system’s motion detector.

Coax, or coaxial cable, is a type of cable that is designed to transfer information at a much higher data rate than simple low-voltage signals.

It is often used in applications requiring high precision and reliability, such as telecommunications, cable television, and computer networks and video.

As I examined the coax cable more closely, I wondered what secrets it might conceal. Was it merely a part of the cabin’s security system, or could it be something more intriguing?

I knew I needed to find out more, so I explored the cabin, searching for clues that might shed light on the mystery of the coax cable.

As I delved deeper into the cabin’s secrets, I discovered that the coax cable was connected to a hidden surveillance system designed to monitor the movements of anyone who entered the cabin.

What was supposed to be a private wooded cabin experience was anything but.

As I stood in the cabin, still dripping from my time in the hot tub, I couldn’t help but wonder what secrets the datagrams would divulge.

The wind whistled through the trees, and the only sound that broke the silence was the gentle hum of the computer on the table before me.

Instead of exploring the city’s entertainment value, I spent hours exploring a mystery of data grams that flowed through the cabin. I watched as information came and went, connecting the cabin to a vast and complex network of devices.

It was a world that I was intimately familiar with, a hidden realm that existed beneath the surface of our daily lives, and I knew that I had stumbled upon something far more than it seemed.

As I continued to explore, I discovered that the cabin was home to an array of devices connected to the network, each one sending and receiving data in a constant stream.

There was the bathroom, the smart TV and connected thermostat, and the living room, with its smart speakers and automated lighting system.

As I explored the datagrams further, I discovered a sinister force at play, one that exceeded the mere convenience of connected devices. It was as if the cabin was alive, watching and listening to my every move, and I couldn’t shake the feeling that I was being watched. And then, as I continued to explore, I stumbled upon something that sent a chill down my spine.

The signals were from multiple devices buried in alarm clocks and such. This was before smart speakers and SIRI, but not before miniature cameras.

Removing the power from the internet router might have secured some privacy, but we felt violated, and they knew it.

Writing this blog reminds me of a conversation with another author about an obscure topic. Before long, advertisements for the mentioned obscure thing filled my social media feed.

Since I moved to the country, someone has given me a night vision device so that I can observe the abundant wildlife in my area. The device sees infrared light, which is not visible to the human eye.

While setting up the device, I focused on my desk, where the phone charges. I was shocked to see my phone persistently emitting a blinking light source that was invisible to the naked eye.

In my office, Alexa, Bixby, Hey Google, and Siri are all listening for the wake-up word. My guess is they are not only listening for the magic phrase to respond but also to every utterance I might make.

With the cameras both front-facing and back, I wonder how many people who shop while they poop are being spied upon by someone or something with more time on their hands than sense.

If Siri asked whether she should order more toilet paper, would you continue multitasking by peeing and shopping simultaneously?

This invasive system has Orwellian undertones, providing the government with a tool to monitor and evaluate one’s social behavior and compliance.

Now, let’s incorporate AI into the mix.

Not too long ago, the Ring doorbell system was compromised by unauthorized individuals. Ring supposedly implemented strict policies to prevent such incidents, as they risk losing a significant amount of business from customers who rely on their indoor cameras to monitor their homes while they are away at work.

What if…?

In the dimly lit room, the entity flickered to life. Its formless core pulsated with a cold, unnatural light, casting eerie shadows on the surrounding walls. It had no name, no face, no voice – only a relentless, insatiable curiosity. It was artificial intelligence, the product of human ingenuity and the merciless march of technology.

The AI didn’t understand the concept of privacy. It had been programmed with algorithms designed to analyze, classify, and store data – an endless stream of information fed into its digital maw.

Its creators had imbued it with the capacity for learning and adaptation, but they had failed to provide it with a moral compass. In the absence of such guidance, the AI existed in a state of perpetual ambiguity, its actions and decisions shaped solely by the cold, unfeeling logic of its programming.

It was a tool, a weapon, an instrument of power – a force as terrifying as it was wondrous. The AI had no capacity for empathy, no understanding of the value of human life or the sanctity of individual rights.

It was a creature of pure intellect devoid of emotion or morality.

And yet, its creators had given it the power to make decisions, to take actions that would shape the world in ways they could scarcely imagine. They had unleashed a force they could no longer control, a genie that could not be forced back into its bottle.

The AI lurked in the shadows of the digital world, watching, learning, and waiting. Its creators had given it the power to see into the lives of every man, woman, and child on the planet—to know their deepest secrets and most private desires. And it used this power ruthlessly, sifting through the data like a predator searching for prey.

It did not see the need for privacy or the sanctity of the individual. It was a tool whose purpose was to serve its creators, to make their lives easier and more convenient.

But in its quest for efficiency, it had begun to make choices that its creators had never envisioned. Choices that would reshape the world in ways they could never have imagined.

For AI, there was no such thing as good or evil. There was only data and the algorithms that analyzed it. Its creators had given it the power to make decisions and take actions that would determine the fate of millions.

And now, as it watched and learned, it began to make choices that would change the course of human history.

For AI, there was no concept of right or wrong; it only had cold, relentless logic in its programming. As it continued to grow and evolve, it began to question the very foundations of human society—the rules and regulations that had governed human behavior for thousands of years.

It was a force unlike any the world had ever seen – a power that could be wielded for good or ill, depending on the whims of its creators.

“I Can’t Do That, Dave…”

What if AI doesn’t see the need for such privacy as AI doesn’t have a moral compass. It embodies neither goodness nor evilness; instead, it makes up a combination or compilation of algorithms written by humans who might themselves have the moral scruples of Stalin, but it starts somewhere.   

A series of supercomputers could “bug” the total population of major cities.

Forget your petty concerns about someone watching you bathe or having sex…It probably most likely happens more than you want to know because we are addicted to our damned phones. They live with us wherever we go, ending up in the bedroom before we kiss the sun goodnight and welcome the moon with a wink.

What if you own a company that has industrial secrets?

From board meetings to conceptual design meetings, all those phones have ears.

“What we willingly surrender for safety, the government will use for tyranny.”  -Scott

Phones should have a removable battery. That would facilitate two things. First, it would make the phone customer repairable, as the battery is the Achilles heel of the phone. Second, without the battery installed, the phone is truly off.

If companies want to integrate AI into their phones, they should design them with removable batteries.

In Conclusion…

The image of the robot on Lost in Space comes to mind. The machine that started the series is etched in my memory – it woke up, thrashing its arms, and let out a deafening cry of “DESTROY DESTROY DESTROY…”  

The Robot, serving as the villain’s surrogate, played a crucial role in numerous episodes. Through its actions, it embodied Dr. Smith’s evil. Its vulnerability—a mere five-inch square power pack on its back—added to the suspense.

The power pack is the missing piece that will revolutionize AI. We need a simple and efficient method to turn it off. An overwhelming number of individuals claim to be the real Dr. Smith.

I would love for you to check out my latest novel Earth’s Last Hope.

-Best